Breaking the Failure Code
For as long as I can remember, I have carried a lot of anger, resentment, and guilt over my life's direction and circumstances. Lania helped me create positive, fundamental change in my life.
In my sessions with Lania, I feel I have been literally changed into complete
positivity and am open to all possibilities. As a consequence, I am incredibly
more aware, joyful, relaxed, and more energetic than I have been in years.
I highly recommend her programs.
— Rick Coyle,
MSW
Breaking the Failure Code
Failure Codes are imprinted when two or more emotional/physical components are linked together and experienced multiple times.
Failure codes are generally programmed during pregnancy. These patterns are instilled while we are still at our most vulnerable and impressionable stage, with no ability to discern the validity of the beliefs we are absorbing. Then any time strong events and/or experiences occur, they reinforce our already-established beliefs.
If this happens enough times, then we are programmed to follow a similar pattern throughout our lives. Lania calls unwanted behavioral patterns created in this way Failure Codes.
The imprinting of these Failure Codes occurs from one generation to the next as multi-generational patterns become linked through our DNA. How many traits, attitudes, prejudices, and beliefs do we absorb from our parents and others in our environment? Just about all of them.
The most insidious aspect of Failure Codes is that nearly everyone is initially unaware they are operating by them. Totally blind to this inflexible patterning, we march through life with unerring consistency. When we find ourselves repeatedly facing the same challenges, we may begin to wonder why.
With exploration, we may uncover any number of hidden programs, some of which could be: "They wanted a girl, but I'm a boy. There's something wrong with me," or "I was supposed to fix their marriage. Is that why I go through life always finding others who need help?" or, "I was born too soon after my sibling. Mom didn't want me and was too busy for me. I always feel unwanted, that I'm a mistake."
The good news is that once we see Failure Codes for what they are—rigid programs from which all our behaviors stem—we can then make a conscious choice to break the hold these patterns have on us. We can shift into the more life-affirming Success Codes with no need for guilt about the past.
The process of SoulPoint is specifically designed to illuminate Failure Codes, bringing insight to hidden agendas that may have been running your life. As this simple and gentle process of awareness unfolds, it allows you to bypass the arduous work of fixing anything. Rather, it shows you how to move beyond your Failure Codes in such a way that you receive maximum insight and benefit from the experience. SoulPoint turns on the light of understanding, revealing the Success Codes for which you have been searching.
With new codes in place, filled with potential, you may find yourself becoming the magnet that attracts a richness of life that can only come from the power of living life from a newly embraced Success Code. With SoulPoint, you lay the foundation to transform issues and challenges that have been plaguing you. Stubborn problems may resolve themselves effortlessly. You may notice greater health and more vibrant relationships. Fueled by your imagination and desire, you can now ponder life from the fascinating question, "How will my life unfold now that I have more goodness and love than I've ever known?"
Now is the time to create your dreams!
For more information on Lania and SoulPoint please enjoy the following articles:
Why Am I So Different?
by Lania Desmond
If you have always felt different, out of sync, you may be among a small group
of adults struggling to understand why they don't fit in. Read this article
to learn more about yourself.
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Healing of Motherhood
by Kate McEwan
A young woman from Wales knew she had anger issues to resolve, but had no
idea how. Then she found Lania.
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Indigo Elder Looks Back
by Lania Desmond
Discover how an amazing series of personal life events empower Lania to utilize
her Indigo talents to bring forth SoulPoint.
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